Find Your Voice: Speaking Without Apology

Tue, May 23 12:00 PM - 1:00 PM EDT

Hosted by ReadyTalk Tue, May 23 12:00 PM - 1:00 PM EDT

Join us on this Jam Session with Mmarisa Santoro, where you will master your mindset on how you see yourself first and upgrade your communication style immediately.

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Did you know that your dialogue and internal self-talk impacts how you are perceived, and is affecting your confidence levels? Join us on this Jam Session with marisa Santoro, where you will master your mindset on how you see yourself first and upgrade your communication style immediately. You will:

  • Learn to recognize ways in which you can detach from language which feeds into the “Sorry Syndrome” – apologetic words that imply inadequacy rather than exemplifying strength,
  • Learn how subtle tweaks in your speech can springboard you from diluting your value to spotlighting your assets,
  • Receive guidance on how to speak with confidence, intention and clarity, positively influencing how others respond to you,
  • and more.

Marisa Santoro is the Founder of www.InRShoes.com and The Gutsy Leadership Academy, an online business school consisting of self-paced training courses and live coaching. Marisa is a recent winner of the “Women of Influence” award by New York Business Journals and national columnist for American Business Journals. Delivering an authentic professional training program and toolkit, gutsy leadership education is based on taking action driven primarily by your intuitive GUT gene (i.e. gut instinct) along with proven how-to business guidance in order to accelerate as an entrepreneur running your practice or intrapreneur inside your organization.

11 Comments

Marisa Santoro
October 10, 2017

Danielle, your feedback is invaluable for others here, I have often heard these same challenges. Coming from Wall Street, I unfortunately had few female role models as the only women I had access to were not who I wanted to emulate - aggressive and ballsy, not to be confused with gutsy. The fact that you are so aware of the "bull in the china shop" professionals, guarantees that you will not fold into that abrasive perception of you. Set the intention of how you want to be perceived and people will feel that. It's how you show up, then the words will come. Own your authority first. (BEING) Speak without Apology next (DOING) that's how it works. big hug, Marisa p.s are we linked in?

Danielle Baxter
October 5, 2017

This is a wonderful presentation. I always joke that I need a "swear" jar and an "unnecessary apology" jar. They'd both be full. Your specific examples of qualifying language were so valuable. I'm already more aware of the words I use to express myself. I also struggle with feeling rude, and not because of a limiting belief from my past, but from my present. My co-worker is highly aggressive and scrapes everyone raw with her words. Any time I think of being assertive, I have to shake the image of her from my mind. Thank you, thank you, thank you for giving me tools to succeed in presenting my value without being abrasive.

Marisa Santoro
August 15, 2017

I'm so glad you found it valuable Elif, you're very welcome!

Elif Vardar
June 2, 2017

Thank you Marisa, I very much enjoyed to listen you.

Kristine Ostgarden
May 23, 2017

Hello What is the audio call in?

Jenny Song
May 23, 2017

Yes can you please advise? I am trying to dial in as well.

Shannon Scott
May 23, 2017

I can't find a dial-in or access code either. Will this recording be sent out?

Janet Green
May 23, 2017

has anyone been able to connect? I did not receive an email confirmation for this event but I did register.

Raquel Ugalde
May 23, 2017

Hi ladies, if you registered prior to the jam session, you should've received an email from ready talk with dial-in info. If you're having issues, please email info@ellevatenetwork.com! Thanks! Best, Raquel

Janet Green
May 23, 2017

Thank you, Michelle!

Michelle Doherty
May 23, 2017

Thank you Michele, I was having issues getting in. FYI, Raquel, never got an email with dial-in info.